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Monday, November 26, 2007
Friday, November 23, 2007
What are they thinking? Honda Jet or Transformer?
I see nothing special in this car le...The bonnet open side ways so GAYSI meh? You think opening sideways look better ha? Can open much more easily ha? You think woofer sounds better if the bonnet built that way ha?
The back door open out like jet wings can fly meh? If suddenly got emergency, can people easily get in or not?How long does it take to open the door?
What happened to your back wheels? Looks like broken already le... You think very stable when driving fast if you put that way ha? Pity the tires lo, the threads sure wear out vey fast.
Ah... The front doors looks normal la... No comments on that...
Honda! Transform and ROLL OUT!!!
I know la, I know the car is only for modification pleasure olny... To show the creativity of the car owner... Good Job ! ! !
Jelousy Kills ! ! ! Abandon it ! ! !
Hello, guys...
I am back again...
Ya ya, i know... Lousy me... So few postings... but at least i tried... Ha ha...
I happened to read an article in the "Miri Community" about jealousy and i agreed with what he has written.
Here it goes....
Jealousy is one of the worst poisons of any relationship. The devastating effects of jealousy are twofold: first, jealousy ruins good communication between people, causing a mutltitude of unfounded arguments and fights; secondly, jealousy conveys some of the most unattractive qualities in a jealous person such as lack of confidence and insecurity which are some of the bigget turn offs for both men and women.
Jealousy and suspiciousness indicate insecurity in a person’s self-worth and lack of confidence in his ability to attract and keep a partner interested. A lover who suspects his partner of unfaithfulness without having real evidence of that will literally “terrorize” him by questioning and constantly treating him as a suspect of the crime of cheating.
Ironically, we are more likely to develop jealousy and let it adversely affect our behavior if our relationship is great and we are very happy with our partner. Our jealousy and our possessiveness is a side effect of our desire not to lose something that is very special and very precious to us. And the more precious our partner is to us, the more carefully we guard him / her by means of jealousy. That concern and fear of loss of someone very rare and special leads us to overprotecting it. Suspiciousness, lack of trust, and questioning your partner about his whereabouts in an investigating manner cause unnecessary fighting, conflicts an eventually break-ups of relationships that otherwise had great potential to develop and prosper. Don’t let this happen to you. If you believe that you subject your partner to your jealousy, start working on eliminating it immediately. Eliminating jealousy is not a quick process. Jealousy is a trait of character, a frame of mind and an emotion, and as such – getting rid of it is a gradual evolvement that requires work, self-reflection, patience, and persistence.
The great news is that the rewards of liberating yourself from jealousy will likely keep you free of jealousy for the rest of your life and will make your future relationships much more successful.
So, what are the steps that you can take to eradicate jealousy and possessiveness from your emotional arsenal? The first and the most important step in dealing with jealousy is, like with many other issues is recognizing that you have a problem. Most people who have jealousy issues are in denial and refuse to admit that their behavior and perception are irrational and their lack of trust is unsubstantiated by any real facts. Recognizing that you have a problem is essential to your motivation to work on it and to your success in overcoming jealousy. Once you have passed this crucial first step and have recognized that you are jealous, I suggest that you adopt the following, proven-to-be-effective beliefs which will gradually eliminate your jealousy and all of its manifestations:
Become aware and accept the fact that whether you trust the person you are with or not, whether you question his actions or not, and whether you “spy” on him has no positive effect on his behavior and faithfulness.
If a man or a woman wants to cheat, he / she will find a way to cheat, and there is nothing you can do to prevent it. So, stop it! Stop assuming the worst about him. Stop wondering where he is and what he is doing at any given moment! Assume the best about your partner and his faithfulness to you until and unless you have real reasons to believe otherwise.
Keep in mind that the only reason, the only thing that keeps your partner around you is his desire to be with you. Nothing else keeps either of you near each other. And his desire to be with you comes NOT from your pressure or your attempts to convince him to be faithful to you but from your other qualities that make you attractive and desirable. Your efforts to keep your partner have no positive effect on your relationship. If anything, it might put excess pressure on that person - something that no one enjoys and tolerates for very long. Remember that the best “leash” is the loose one or even better – a total absence thereof. To remove your mind from jealous thoughts, become a little more selfish. Spend more of your time and your emotional and intellectual resources on building yourself as an individual rather than perceiving yourself as part of the relationship. Work on your career and your other goals. Take a class in a field that you have an interest in, learn a new language, engage in a form of creative art, take a dance class, and do anything else that you have or might have an interest in, so that there is more to your life than just that relationship, and so that your life does not revolve around any given person and his faithfulness to you. Pursuing other objectives of your life will prevent you from obsessing over your partner and will keep you in a much healthier emotional state.
By liberating yourself from jealousy, you will exhibit some of the most attractive qualities in you: your common sense, your confidence in yourself and in your ability to attract the other person and maintain his exclusive romantic interest in you, your value as a wise person, and your confidence in your partner’s feelings. Don’t miss out on such an easy way to demonstrate those great qualities by rising far above jealousy.
Remember, there is no insurance policy or collection agency for any relationships. Whether you are casually dating or are married, whether you have been together for one month or twenty years, it’s possible that your relationship will end at any time for a hundred possible reasons. I do not want to sound negative, but I do want you to be aware of the reality of all relationships. What does this mean to you? This means that you should enjoy and appreciate your relationships as long as they last but at the same time accept and embrace the possibility that any such relationship might be over one day. And if it is, it will be tough, but you will get over it. It will not be the end of the world for you. Your duty is being the best you can be in a relationship that you want to have. The rest is NOT up to you. The rest depends on your partner and you have no control over it, and whatever you have no control over, should not concern you or be a cause of your anxieties.
As you abandon jealousy, you will start experiencing tremendous freedom - the freedom to enjoy your love life without the taxing pain of jealousy and insecurity.
By : chikoloy78 (Miri Community)
Well, frankly speaking, i am a guy with a deep sense of jealousy, i can think all sorts of RUBBISH when jealousy strikes. Its definitely killing! So, abandon it, otherwise you might lose your him / her . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Not only humans get JEALOUS, our PETS also. . . . . . . . . . . . .
When MAX gets JEALOUS, he PEES on the bed. . . . . . . . . . . . .
How about you?
THE END
I am back again...
Ya ya, i know... Lousy me... So few postings... but at least i tried... Ha ha...
I happened to read an article in the "Miri Community" about jealousy and i agreed with what he has written.
Here it goes....
Jealousy is one of the worst poisons of any relationship. The devastating effects of jealousy are twofold: first, jealousy ruins good communication between people, causing a mutltitude of unfounded arguments and fights; secondly, jealousy conveys some of the most unattractive qualities in a jealous person such as lack of confidence and insecurity which are some of the bigget turn offs for both men and women.
Jealousy and suspiciousness indicate insecurity in a person’s self-worth and lack of confidence in his ability to attract and keep a partner interested. A lover who suspects his partner of unfaithfulness without having real evidence of that will literally “terrorize” him by questioning and constantly treating him as a suspect of the crime of cheating.
Ironically, we are more likely to develop jealousy and let it adversely affect our behavior if our relationship is great and we are very happy with our partner. Our jealousy and our possessiveness is a side effect of our desire not to lose something that is very special and very precious to us. And the more precious our partner is to us, the more carefully we guard him / her by means of jealousy. That concern and fear of loss of someone very rare and special leads us to overprotecting it. Suspiciousness, lack of trust, and questioning your partner about his whereabouts in an investigating manner cause unnecessary fighting, conflicts an eventually break-ups of relationships that otherwise had great potential to develop and prosper. Don’t let this happen to you. If you believe that you subject your partner to your jealousy, start working on eliminating it immediately. Eliminating jealousy is not a quick process. Jealousy is a trait of character, a frame of mind and an emotion, and as such – getting rid of it is a gradual evolvement that requires work, self-reflection, patience, and persistence.
The great news is that the rewards of liberating yourself from jealousy will likely keep you free of jealousy for the rest of your life and will make your future relationships much more successful.
So, what are the steps that you can take to eradicate jealousy and possessiveness from your emotional arsenal? The first and the most important step in dealing with jealousy is, like with many other issues is recognizing that you have a problem. Most people who have jealousy issues are in denial and refuse to admit that their behavior and perception are irrational and their lack of trust is unsubstantiated by any real facts. Recognizing that you have a problem is essential to your motivation to work on it and to your success in overcoming jealousy. Once you have passed this crucial first step and have recognized that you are jealous, I suggest that you adopt the following, proven-to-be-effective beliefs which will gradually eliminate your jealousy and all of its manifestations:
Become aware and accept the fact that whether you trust the person you are with or not, whether you question his actions or not, and whether you “spy” on him has no positive effect on his behavior and faithfulness.
If a man or a woman wants to cheat, he / she will find a way to cheat, and there is nothing you can do to prevent it. So, stop it! Stop assuming the worst about him. Stop wondering where he is and what he is doing at any given moment! Assume the best about your partner and his faithfulness to you until and unless you have real reasons to believe otherwise.
Keep in mind that the only reason, the only thing that keeps your partner around you is his desire to be with you. Nothing else keeps either of you near each other. And his desire to be with you comes NOT from your pressure or your attempts to convince him to be faithful to you but from your other qualities that make you attractive and desirable. Your efforts to keep your partner have no positive effect on your relationship. If anything, it might put excess pressure on that person - something that no one enjoys and tolerates for very long. Remember that the best “leash” is the loose one or even better – a total absence thereof. To remove your mind from jealous thoughts, become a little more selfish. Spend more of your time and your emotional and intellectual resources on building yourself as an individual rather than perceiving yourself as part of the relationship. Work on your career and your other goals. Take a class in a field that you have an interest in, learn a new language, engage in a form of creative art, take a dance class, and do anything else that you have or might have an interest in, so that there is more to your life than just that relationship, and so that your life does not revolve around any given person and his faithfulness to you. Pursuing other objectives of your life will prevent you from obsessing over your partner and will keep you in a much healthier emotional state.
By liberating yourself from jealousy, you will exhibit some of the most attractive qualities in you: your common sense, your confidence in yourself and in your ability to attract the other person and maintain his exclusive romantic interest in you, your value as a wise person, and your confidence in your partner’s feelings. Don’t miss out on such an easy way to demonstrate those great qualities by rising far above jealousy.
Remember, there is no insurance policy or collection agency for any relationships. Whether you are casually dating or are married, whether you have been together for one month or twenty years, it’s possible that your relationship will end at any time for a hundred possible reasons. I do not want to sound negative, but I do want you to be aware of the reality of all relationships. What does this mean to you? This means that you should enjoy and appreciate your relationships as long as they last but at the same time accept and embrace the possibility that any such relationship might be over one day. And if it is, it will be tough, but you will get over it. It will not be the end of the world for you. Your duty is being the best you can be in a relationship that you want to have. The rest is NOT up to you. The rest depends on your partner and you have no control over it, and whatever you have no control over, should not concern you or be a cause of your anxieties.
As you abandon jealousy, you will start experiencing tremendous freedom - the freedom to enjoy your love life without the taxing pain of jealousy and insecurity.
By : chikoloy78 (Miri Community)
Well, frankly speaking, i am a guy with a deep sense of jealousy, i can think all sorts of RUBBISH when jealousy strikes. Its definitely killing! So, abandon it, otherwise you might lose your him / her . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Not only humans get JEALOUS, our PETS also. . . . . . . . . . . . .
When MAX gets JEALOUS, he PEES on the bed. . . . . . . . . . . . .
How about you?
THE END
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